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The guest list can make or break your wedding. Making smart choices allows you to keep the peace, honor friends and family, and stay within your budget. How can you whittle down everyone you've ever met to a select few? Take a look at the top wedding guest list questions answered.
This depends on your beliefs, your family's needs, and who pays for the wedding. In most cases, the couple getting married has control over the final draft. But this doesn't mean other people (outside of the couple) can't have a say in it.
If your parents, or your fiancé's parents, are paying for the wedding, they may have a few requests. If their requests become problematic, negotiate how many (and who) you feel comfortable with them adding.
Gone are the days of guest list rules that couples must follow. Whether you're not sure if you need to invite your fiancé's estranged father or your cousin's kids, consider these guidelines:
Deciding who the must-have's are for you and your soon-to-be spouse is a first step in setting boundaries that will eventually translate into a manageable (and budget-friendly) guest list.
Like many other aspects of your guest list, this is a personal preference issue. Before deciding one way or the other, consider:
Is the wedding child-friendly? A late-night reception, a lengthy ceremony, or a menu of fancy foods that young children will not eat may preclude kids from your list.
Are the children meaningful to you or your fiancé? There's a significant difference between invited your siblings' children and your former college roommate's (who you haven't seen in a decade) kids. If the child or children hold special meaning in your life, invite them too.
Do you want children there? This is your wedding. If you prefer an adult-oriented affair, it's acceptable to nix kids from the guest list.
It's also acceptable to only invite children over a specific age, limiting your guest list to older kids, tweens, and teens—but excluding babies, toddlers, and young children.
While creating a guest list that fills your wedding with beloved friends and family is a top priority, this is an often-complicated process that involves multiple details. Considerations to make before finalizing your list include:
Along with these considerations, you'll also need to decide whether you're inviting plus one's or not. Again, set limits for this category too. Decide whether everyone gets a plus one or only spouses or significant others make the guest list.
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